Moving from online dating to a real date can feel like a huge step, especially if you’re new to the online dating scene. If you feel like you’re ready to take the plunge and meet up with someone you’ve been talking to online, there are a few things you should keep in mind to make sure your date goes as smoothly as possible. Here are some tips to help you make the transition from online dating to a real date go as smoothly as possible.
Create online profile.
Creating an online profile for online dating can be overwhelming for a young adult. You want to make sure you create a profile that stands out, showcases your personality, and presents your best self. To get started, make sure you have a few great photos and a detailed bio that includes your interests, hobbies, and why you’re looking for a connection. Be honest, genuine, and, most importantly, have fun!
Chat with potentials.
Chatting with potential dates online can be intimidating, but it’s a great way to get to know someone better before taking the plunge and asking them out. A great thing to do is to keep the conversation light and funny, ask questions to get to know the person better and make sure you’re both comfortable before suggesting a real date. Don’t be afraid to be yourself and show your personality—it’s the best way to make sure you both have a good time on your first date.
Exchange photos/numbers.
If you’ve been talking to someone online and you feel like it’s time to move on to a real date, exchanging photos and numbers is a great way to start. Don’t be afraid to share a few pics with the person you’re talking to so they can get an idea of who they’re actually going to meet. You don’t have to share too many personal details, but having a conversation over the phone or a video call is a good way to get to know each other before you meet.
Schedule date/time.
Moving from online dating to a real date can be intimidating, but the most important part is to pick the right date and time that works for both of you. I suggest scheduling the date in advance, so you both have time to make sure you’re both 100% comfortable and ready to meet up. Plus, it helps to avoid any last minute nerves!
Meet in public place.
If you’re taking the plunge from online dating to a real date, it’s important to meet in a public place. Whether you choose a cafe, bar, or park, make sure that the spot is well-lit and populated with people. Plus, it’s always a good idea to have an emergency plan in case you feel uncomfortable. And don’t forget, safety first!
Enjoy fun first date!
When it comes to your first date, it’s important to keep it fun and light. Don’t overthink it! Try going to a comedy show, playing mini golf, or checking out a museum. Just focus on having a good time, and getting to know each other. The best first dates are those that you can enjoy together and make lasting memories.
